When someone we love dies and we have to say goodbye for the very last time, we want that occasion to be as memorable and unique as they were.
We want to picture them through the words that are spoken, feel them through the music that is played, and take comfort in the fact that their life is being reflected in an accurate and meaningful way.
For some people, a fully religious funeral service conducted by a priest or vicar is not always appropriate. However, a strictly non-religious service, such as a Humanist funeral, can be equally unsuitable; if, for example, your loved-one had a favourite hymn or prayer.
An independent funeral is centered on the beliefs and wishes of the person who has died and their family. It provides a meaningful, respectful ceremony that truly reflects your loved-one’s life, whatever their age, circumstances, spiritual beliefs or background.
There is a shift in thinking around funerals – should a 21st century life be commemorated with a 19th century send off? There is nothing wrong with tradition; many people take comfort from it and have done for centuries. But a more individual approach to creating funerals can help to reflect the colourful, diverse lives and personalities of our loved-ones, while still maintaining a sense of dignity and respect. It would be nice to know that your funeral isn’t going to be exactly the same as the one that went before you, and the one that will come after. We all lead different lives – why have the same funeral?
As an independent Funeral Celebrant, I can compose and conduct a ceremony that captures the essence of the person who has died and reflects the feelings of those who loved and knew them best. By meeting you in the comfort of your own home, I can sensitively talk through your options and choices, creating with you a unique ceremony for a unique life.
